Body positive + Body honest – do they go hand in hand?
As I have been getting healthy and learning how to make being vegan a
permanent life style change and not be on a “diet” I have come upon more and more
articles about being “Body Positive.” I
myself, have lacked self-confidence most all of my teenage and adult life. I was the tall redhead with glasses my whole
life (carrot top/four eyes). I never
felt as thin, pretty or as smart as those around me. Last year I turned 43 and I have finally
started to build up my self-confidence (better late than never I guess). Not sure why or when it exactly started. Sometimes I think I have come to that half-way
point in my life and I want to live the next half of it healthy, aware and
positive. So, Body Positive, yes I have
come to except my body, hair color, glasses and all. Heck, my body allowed me to give birth to my
two beautiful children. My husband tells
me every day I look beautiful or hot (I like both) no matter what I weigh. I wear short shorts even though my legs are
not tan and summer ready. I agree we
should be Body Positive, but when is it not a good thing? When do we really need to be “Body Honest”
with ourselves too? Shouldn’t Body Positive AND Body Honest go hand-in-hand?